This is an excerpt from my article Worried About Women Having a Past? Read This. published on March, 19, 2024. I’ve turned it into it’s own separate post because some Indian men really need to hear this.
You can sleep with most single working educated Indian women (who live away from family) in 3 dates or less.
Close to 100% of them will sleep with you without marriage if you do a “relationship” with them but most will do it in 3 dates or less if you’re fun/high value enough.
Indians who think “Our women are better” are living in cope and delusion world. When given complete freedom and privacy that living away from family in cities provide – your women behave exactly like western women.
Indian girls date just like American girls. At least American women are honest about dating many men. Indian girls are much more cunning, discreet, and good-at-lying because of social and reputational pressures.
I dated many “good girls” who later married with some nerdy nice guy with a degree and a job (sometimes arranged sometimes not). Most of them dated a lot more men than me (these online apps have them spoiled for choice).
Women have the same desires everywhere – when given western freedom they behave in the western way.
If she has complete freedom (lives alone), privacy (no neighbours, family, or friends watching), and you are a fun and exciting guy (not “friend material” and non-judgemental) – she will sleep with you.
This is especially true if you met her from an app.
Instead of being mad about this like a chump beta male, play the game to your advantage.
You Are NOT Being “Moral” by Not Dating
You come across these weird dudes with 25%+ body fat making less than $150k a year complain about men who are sleeping with women for “ruining society”.
These guys are beta males who are upset that other men are having sex with the women around them while they don’t get anything. They are coping with this by acting like they are “more moral”.
If a sexy woman threw herself at them, they would sleep with her. Most are just purely coping by saying they wouldn’t (most men are porn addicts).
Most of these girls on dating apps are out there trying to get fucked by a man. If not you then by someone else. This is a fact – it just has to be the right man. It might as well be you.
You are not being “moral” by not playing the game, you are just choosing to exclude yourself.
These guys have the sour grapes mentality where they both complain about all girls being whores but also don’t manage to get laid. It doesn’t make sense.
If this is you, you are not “moral”, you are a loser who lacks game.
These “moral” weirdos are the types who get into fights over women, while the woman just goes on another Bumble date with someone else after the fight is over.
Learn Game
In life as with women, you always want to position yourself to be in the top few percent that gets all the gains and booty. Remember the CEO makes more than 100,000 warehouse workers combined.
The top 20% of guys get all the sex and women while the bottom 80% are mostly invisible.
Many don’t even know how to talk to women.
Take this very seriously – if you suck with women, you need to learn game.
You don’t want to be in the ranks of 80% of bottom men who don’t get any women and then have to marry these women after they’ve been fucked and dumped by their betters.
I feel bad for these guys. Not only do they have to watch the rest of us enjoy the women around them, they also have to marry these women later after they become 27-28 and we’re not interested in them anymore.
Also, when I say top 20%, I mean in terms of excitement/sex appeal/attraction (also known as “game”) – not money (like most assume).
Money does not make you good at handling women. Experience with women makes you good at handling women (Catch 22).
I know lots of rich guys with money who get dominated by their wives. I mean things like “I have to ask her if I can come play Tennis on Saturday” type of life.
Imagine living your life under a woman. Such a terrible existence – money or no money. We are men. We are supposed to be leaders.
Most rich guys get absolutely dominated at home (Also why so many of them spend so much time at work. Their home life sucks).
Things like being fit and having money help, but you need to learn GAME. You have to be EXCITING and FUN to be around. Women should want to be around you.
I do not cover this topic on the blog much or talk about dating because I don’t want LMM to become just another game blog.
If you don’t know where to start, here are two of the best resources:
- Read The Book of Pook (Old book written before texting and online dating were a thing. Covers mostly mindset stuff. Life changing read for many – including myself.)
- Get Seduction Bible (Best modern resource on the subject and regularly updated)
UPDATE: I reached out to Masculinity Rediscovered and you can now get both books as a bundle here.
Hope this helps.
Your man,
Harsh Strongman
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