Every once in a while you hear a 5ft something guy complain about how hard it is to date as a short guy. If you’re short, this piece is for you.
Here is the quick summary of the things you need to do:
- Stop talking about being short.
- Don’t bring up your height when you’re out with a girl.
- Don’t crack any self-depreciating jokes about how short you are.
- Focus on the things you can control like your fitness, money, lifestyle, etc.
You need to stop crying about something you cannot control and work on the things that you can.
It’s true that women care about height but it’s not the only thing they care about.
You need to stop making a big deal about your height and improve what you can improve.
- Lift weights so you look fitter
- Wear good looking clothes / improve your style
- Build your income and business
- Have fun and live a happening life
and shut up about your height.
If you bring up your height, it shows that you are insecure about it – and to women, insecurity smells like weakness and makes them want to get away from you. Women are attracted to confidence and repelled by insecurities.
If a woman has a problem with your height, she will reject you and you can move on. But let her decide herself whether she has a problem with your shortness – don’t keep talking about your height and making it an issue.
There are more aspects to the male life than just height so work on that.
I can guarantee you that there are many people out there who have a couple inches less than you who are into good relationships. Being short is not the end of the world.
You have 2 options:
Option 1: You are short and broke and fat (or frail) and dress up terribly and live a boring life. You accept your status as a subhuman midget and live your sad life accordingly.
Option 2: You are short, rich, jacked, wear good looking clothes, and live a fun life. Women like you because you are a source of fun and excitement, and not an insecure average dude with an inferiority complex.
Which option are you going to take? Because option 2 sounds much better to me than option 1.
Hope this helps.