The Female Loser

You are all familiar with the concept of the male loser.

He makes little money, he is obese, he sucks with women, he has no ambition in life other than to play video games, etc.

But you never hear about the concept of the female loser.

A 30 year old guy who works as a minimum wage waiter at a restaurant is squarely called a loser but a 30 year old woman who does the same thing isn’t dubbed a loser in nearly the same way.

In fact modern media and society try very hard to make women completely unaccountable for their actions.

This is true across the political spectrum. A woman can fuck 100 men in a week and the left will say she’s free to do what she wants and we shouldn’t judge her for it. The right will blame men for “taking advantage of her”. In the mainstream, a woman is almost never held accountable for her actions.

However losers exist – in both men and women – and no amount of psyops and cultural manipulation will change this fact.

In this post I will help give you the basic principles to identify female losers.

How do you come up with criteria for defining a loser?

The way the male loser is defined is that you first identify what most men want, and then invert it.

What do most men want?

• To be fit
• To be respected
• To be desired by women
• To have money and power
• etc.

And then the definition of a male loser is someone who doesn’t have these things.

Fat, low social status / not respected, bad with women, broke, powerless, works a job, etc.

Basically to define a male loser, you take what men in general want and invert it.

We can define a female loser the same way. To identify a female loser, you have to find and understand what does a woman want out of her life.

What do Women Want From Their Life?

Now the humorous answer is “who cares” but if we were to be serious, in general:

Women want to be married to a man they can look up to and have children. At the same time she wants to be beautiful, high status, and live an interesting life.

Women have this in their DNA. It’s hardwired into them. Even the most strong and independent masculine woman out there wants an even more masculine man to dominate her in bed.

Women did not evolve to be leaders. Women did not evolve to be independent. They did not evolve to be selfish.

The modern masculine independent leader woman is a product of cultural perversion. These women are not happy. They are merely maintaining a social facade.

Many of these women cry about their situation every few days (What kind of strong independent leader cries every week?).

Over millions of years of evolution, women have evolved to:

• Want children (the ones who didn’t did not pass on their genes)
• Want men (someone to provide them with safety and resources)
• Value beauty and status because it helps them secure a better man
• Be hypergamous (want a man better than her to improve the genes of her children and thus their chances of survival)
• Be highly possessive about her man i.e. want exclusivity/marriage (her chances of survival are much lower if her man abandoned her for another woman)

A woman who does not behave like this is acting against her genetic instincts.

This could be either an abnormality in her DNA (like homosexuals who want to fuck other dudes instead of women) or a result of cultural psyop (say a woman who does not want children because she has always been told having a child means her life and freedom is over).

At the same time, most women do not want to become boring old housewives with nothing in their life except housework and children. They want a husband and children AND have an interesting/exciting life at the same time.

This is why the “bad boys” get the most girls. The girls are looking for an exciting man they can tame. There is an inherent value in being interesting and exciting because all women deep down do not want to live a boring life.

They are creatures of the senses and like physical pleasures, emotions, and other “feely” things. They hate boredom. They would rather be abused than be bored. If you don’t believe this, look up how often women return to their abusers after being freed.

In a study among 104 female residents in a facility for IPV (Intimate Partner Violence) victims, the majority (66.3%) reported that they had separated from and returned to their abusive partners at least once, and of them, 97.1% indicated that they left and returned multiple times (source)

Note: Of course there are many reasons (economic/social) why a woman would return to her abuser, but having seen many abused women over the course of time (I grew up in a chawl which is similar to a ghetto), many of them go back because there’s nothing to do alone (boredom and emptiness).

Once you understand what all women want, it’s very easy to spot female losers.

What do Female Losers Look Like

1) Fat

The single most important thing every woman has always been obsessed about is their appearance. Women from ancient cultures were just as obsessed with beauty as they are today.

If a woman is fat, she has completely destroyed her beauty and sexual appeal… one of her greatest assets in securing the future she wants. She may not accept it, but it is true.

When I say fat, I’m not talking about having some meat on the body which is actually a big positive for her fertility (especially around her hips). I mean FAT.

A fat woman is much more of a loser than a fat man because a woman’s looks are much more useful to her than a man’s looks are to him. A fat man can compensate with money and personality, a fat woman cannot.

2) Wine aunt

I’ve spoken about this before. A wine aunt is a woman who spent her 20s following the path of men – trying to get a career, making money, acquiring power even, but failed to secure a husband.

She will never find a suitable man she can look up to because the type of man she wants (better/richer/more powerful than her) wants a much younger woman in her prime fertile years.

A wine aunt is a loser because her only options are dying childless (if she’s above a certain age) or marrying a man she considers objectively beneath her (i.e. losing the game).

3) Single mother

The modern cultural psyop is that a single mother is a hero for being a single mother. After all she does the work of two parents.

I won’t even delve deep into the fact that children raised by single moms are the least socially adjusted and have a very high likelihood that they will end up in jail for crime.

63% of suicide victims, 90% of homeless and runaway children, 70% of people in juvenile prisons, 85% of youth in prisons, and 80% of rapists are children of single mothers. [Source]

In a study of 56 school shooters, only 46 of the shooters (82%) did not have a father in the house. [Source]

If a single mother is hailed as a hero for doing the job of two parents, she is being made a hero for doing a terrible job.

But that aside, let’s talk about how most women become single mothers.

Widows are a minority of single mothers. I would not count them as losers because becoming a single mother was bad luck and not their fault (unless they knowingly married a dying man).

The vast majority of single mothers (especially in developed countries) are women who opened their legs to get fucked by a man they were either not married to at all or did not vet properly.

Getting impregnated by man who does not wish to father your child is a strong sign of bad judgement.

As a consequence these women live very highly stressed lives in miserable emotional conditions and often rely on taxpayer money from the government to survive.

4) Unreasonable List of Demands

Notice that I said an unreasonable list, not a big list. There are women who are worth enough to have a big list.

Most women are not such women.

Most of the time a woman who has a big list of demands is trying to sell chicken shit at the price of chicken salad.

For example, take a look at the list of requirements of a 5 feet tall 28 year old girl with no work/income and a useless degree:

This woman is the equivalent of a fat broke guy who wants a 10/10 19 year old virgin hottie.

Just like the fat broke guy who wants a 10/10 19 year old virgin hottie, the woman with her unreasonable list of demands is a loser.

5) Highly masculine behaviour

Tattoos, swears a lot, tries to lead everything… you know the type. This type of woman is a loser because she is highly unattractive to high value men.

No high value man wants a boss. He wants a feminine woman who looks after him and provides feminine nurturing energy.

Since the masculine woman wants a man who’s even more masculine than her (remember that even the most masculine woman on the planet wants to be dominated in bed), and not a man less masculine than her (no woman wants this)… her chances of finding such a man and having him want her are close to zero.

Similar to the wine aunt, she either has to “settle” for a man she views beneath her, or stay single.

6) Perpetually unpleasant attitude

This one applies to both men and women. Anyone who has a perpetually unpleasant demeanor and attitude is a loser.

It basically means that they’ve been destroyed psychologically by life by tons of negative experiences and interpret any interaction with a lens of negativity.

You know the type of woman you say hi to and you get a very bitchy answer. Yeah that’s a loser (the exception is if everyone is bitchy to you – then something is wrong with you, not them).

7) Sluts and reformed sluts (High body counts)

A slut is a prime example of a female loser. This is someone who gave away the most valuable goods she’s got and did not manage to secure any commitment in exchange.

They are not only not married to a man they can look up to, but moreover their high body count makes them repulsive to any self respecting man (high value or not) i.e. loser.

This is the female equivalent of the male “incel” where women think the incel is a loser because women don’t want him and all men want to be wanted by women, here the slut is a loser because high value men don’t want to give any commitment to her and all women want commitment from a high value man.

8) Feminist and brags about strong and independent

This is a woman who’s been brainwashed to lose the game by default.

She’s been told that men are evil and out there trying to oppress her. Her mindset is wired to want to become a man.

Why would a woman want to be strong and independent? Because she’s been told that this is the definition of success. She’s been told that by achieving things in the material world and by acquiring a big job title, she will be a success.

This type of woman will frequently deride women who actually do what women evolved to do (take care of their family and children) by calling them the equivalent of slaves and servants, while also working a job for someone else (which is much closer to real slavery).

This is much worse than all the other types of losing above because at least the other female losers are aware that they are losers at some level. These women are losers who think they are winners.

However, the strength and independence is incompatible with their genetic nature, and most of these women feel very lonely, cry frequently, and are jealous of the women they claim are mere servants.

9) No Children

This woman did found a husband but didn’t have children. The “power couple”.

She failed the primary task of nature something she could have done with ease. Unlike men who have to do a lot of things to pass on their genes (like earning an income, being attractive to women, etc.) a woman only has to make the decision to do it.

As far as nature’s game is concerned, women are on easy mode because it’s practically guaranteed that their genes will be passed on to next generations. AND SHE STILL FAILED.

Man or woman, if you fail to have children, you are a loser in the most objective undebatable way possible. Any way you convince yourself that you aren’t a loser is pure cope.

Nature does not care about your personal successes. It only cares about whether you breed or not. The breeding game is harder for men so when they fail, they are losers but at least the game was hard. For women, the game was ultra simple. If they still lost, that’s 100x worse.

As said before, undebatable. Just pure facts. You can cope as hard as you want. But this woman is destined to clear up cat and dog poop, nothing more.

10) No interests other than TV shows and shopping.

The extremely vapid person who knows the episodes of F.R.I.E.N.D.S and How I Met Your Mother by heart.

This woman has no personality other than watching TV shows, consuming celebrity gossip, shopping, fashion, and shoes.

Imagine being married to someone who’s idea of fun is watching TV and going to a shopping mall on the weekend. Good for a quick fuck and maybe a short term casual relationship but nothing more than that.

Don’t wife up the losers. Saving them from their miserable vapid existence isn’t your job.

That’s all for this piece boys.

Until next time.

Your man,

Harsh Strongman