This is one of the best times to be alive in many ways as you have the ability to make money online, you have freedom, relative peace, technology, and prosperity.
We’ve literally cured most of the major diseases of the past. You can make unlimited money from the internet. You can travel across the world and experience things your ancestors couldn’t even dream of.
On the other hand, CULTURALLY it’s a bad time to be alive.
- The institution of marriage is dying (and is already dead in many western places) as most modern women are simply not worth the commitment.
- Men are told since a young age that we’re the cause of all historical problems and oppression. Basically men are blamed for everything and shit on for all their lives.
- You are told that you are worthless by society and that your happiness doesn’t matter. “A real man does xyz things and doesn’t ask questions. If you’re a real man why are you not sacrificing yourself for my benefit.”
- You will literally be told that your job is to make women happy and to serve society like a dumb pack mule. God forbid if you do anything that doesn’t benefit women or society in some way or the other.
These two things are true at the same.
There are a few things every man who lives in the modern world needs to know if he wants to live a happy life.
What Every Man Needs to Know
1) You are in a gynocentric universe.
Unless you live in some hyper traditional or Moslem country, you are in a gynocentric universe. What I mean by this is that everything is geared for the benefit of women at your expense.
The laws are specifically made to protect women. A woman could 100% be in the wrong but her innocence will be presumed and a man’s guilt will be assumed.
A false rape accusation from a woman can end your career and reputation, and bring no consequences for her even when you can prove the rape accusation is false.
A married woman can cheat on her husband, and there can be proof that she cheated, and the man will still be forced to pay alimony and a third of his income as maintenance to his cheater ex-wife.
The penalties for a divorce are always borne by men in almost all cases – even when the woman is capable of making money and is the one who’s entirely responsible for the divorce in the first place (eg. cheating).
The short version of a gynocentric society is where you are burdened with all the traditional duties and responsibilities of being a man, but do not get the traditional rights and privileges that come with them.
The very laws of the land are against you. The moral and social pressure exerted by society is against you. And yet you are expected to perform “your duty as a man” without questioning it.
If you question it, you will be publicly shamed and given a moral lesson about how women have always been oppressed by men, even though you have never oppressed any woman in your life.
There is no point being mad about this. Simply accept it and learn to deal with the world you are in. Nothing is ever perfect and this is an easier situation to deal with than being born during WW2 in Germany for example.
2) You need to learn to be diplomatic in your speech.
What my late friend Corporate Machiavelli used to call Powertalk.
You are in a gynocentric society and there’s no real point crying about it (since complaining doesn’t solve the problem).
You have to learn to navigate this society, and the worst thing you can do in a gynocentric society is be blunt with your speech.
What is the biggest crime you can do in a gynocentric society? Hurting feelings.
Political correctness, DEI, hate speech laws, etc. are all marketed as ways to not hurt feelings.
Gynocentrism doesn’t care about logic. It is feminine. It cares largely about feelings. (Required Reading: Why women say dumb shit)
If you want to succeed in this world, you have to learn to be diplomatic in how you talk. If you cannot do this, you will be seen and treated as a brute and you will lose your employment, business, reputation, social standing, etc.
It is MANDATORY. It is practical reality. When you are not with trusted friends, learn to be diplomatic and mince words. You do not need to tell people who are not your close friends what you actually think.
If you do not do this, you WILL pay for it in various ways.
3) Understand that it is foolish to sacrifice yourself for the modern woman.
From a young age, it will be drilled into you that you should sacrifice to women. You will be told that it is your responsibility to fight for and protect unknown women and that no matter what happens, you should always respect and help women.
Essentially you are taught to be in a psychologically slavish situation to women.
If a woman goes out at 2am in the night to get drunk and party and fuck random dudes, you are not to judge her for it.
“Because judging people is bad and a woman can do whatever she wants and you are no one to tell her what to do and what to wear.”
On the other hand, if someone is misbehaving with her or if she’s in any kind of trouble, you are expected to save her and help her. If she needs a lift at 2 am, you are supposed to provide it.
Regardless, you have no right and authority over women. You merely have the responsibilities.
NEWS FLASH: Women you have no authority over are not your responsibility.
You have no reason to worry about or sacrifice anything for a woman who has done nothing for you and one you cannot command. You do not owe them anything – money, protection, or favors.
This includes marriage. You do not owe a woman marriage. You can fuck them and have your fun with them, but that doesn’t mean she’s owed a marriage.
If a woman is modern (feminist) who believes in 50/50 and the other nonsense, give her the husband she deserves: none.
You have no business sacrificing your sexual options, your time, your money, and all of your attention for a woman who does not even respect you enough to consider you to be superior to her.
In the natural order of things, man is superior to woman like how parents are superior to children. Man provides for and guides woman, like parents do to children.
Any women who cannot entertain the idea of you being her leader has no business thinking of becoming your wife.
Remember, the woman has to earn a marriage. You do not owe it to her. Men lose more in a marriage than they gain. Women gain much more than they lose. A marriage is a sacrifice for men and is not one you should ever make for a “modern” woman.
Understand the purpose of a marriage and pick a worthy woman.
4) Understand that it is foolish to sacrifice yourself for “society”.
You are not living in a society that cares for its men. In fact, it actively hates and discriminates against you if you are a non-minority male.
The overall viewpoint of modern society can be summarized in one line: [White/Hindu/Christian etc] Men have been on top for too long and now it’s women’s and minorities turn.
You do not have to sacrifice yourself for a society that does not care for you.
In terms of actionable advice, this means:
- Try to pay the least amount possible in taxes as you can. Any money you give to the government will be used against you.
- Never ever apologize for the actions of your ancestors. Whatever crimes the mainstream society tells you they committed, you have never done it. Today if you are a high caste Hindu or a White male, they will literally try to make you feel guilty for existing. It’s bullshit.
- Do not join the military if you are from a western country. You will end up fighting a globohomo war in a third world country while the people you are protecting will destroy your country anyway by allowing unlimited migration from non-compatible cultures.
DO NOT MAKE YOURSELF THE SACRIFICIAL LAMB FOR A SOCIETY THAT DOES NOT LIKE YOU.
5) You must do what is best for yourself.
Never forget this. You must do what is best for yourself, not for “women and society”. This is literally what everyone else is told.
Women are always told that they should do what is best “for you”. The minorities always do what is best for them. On the other hand, you are always told to do what is best for everyone else but you.
It is simply a psychological sabotage being played on you. You do not have to do what is best for everyone.
You should also do what is best for you. Regardless of what anyone says or thinks. Because none of these people will be around to help you should you ever need it.
The same people who will say you should never record sex with a stranger will also try to get you sent to jail for false rape accusation. They won’t spend any of their time and money to help you should a woman ever falsely accuse you of anything.
Never let anyone shame you into doing something that is clearly not in your best interest.
Never let anyone shame you into not doing something that is clearly in your best interest.
6) Enjoy life.
You have only one life and you should try to maximize it. This means you not only achieve your goals, but you also do things you enjoy like travel, play sports, spend time with your children, etc.
Never feel bad about doing things you enjoy.
I’m not talking about becoming a lazy bum who spends his day eating pizza and playing video games, because that’s self-destructive.
What I mean is that you must enjoy the fruits of your labor. If you make money, what are you making it for? If you ask society, all you’re supposed to do is never spend anything and die at 80 with millions in the bank.
They will tell you that if you ever do anything fun with your money, you are “wasting” it.
Of course the regular advice of saving money is valuable for broke people who don’t even have a year’s worth of expenses in their savings account, but no one other than that needs to worry about the price of coffee.
Even though I was always conscious of managing lifestyle inflation (the thing that keeps high income people poor), my life improved significantly as my income went up.
You have to find a balance between productivity and enjoyment (like productive enjoyment like sports that improve your health and give you joy) and do things that you want to do.
If you want to travel, then buy a plane ticket and travel.
If you want to eat barbecue, then invite your friends and make some barbecue.
If you want to sleep with many women, then go ahead and do that (use dating apps).
The last thing you want to do is become a boring workaholic type person who grows old to regret never having done things they wanted to do in their life.
Remember, it’s man’s nature to build things and enjoy life once they do. The ancient man was not working 16 hours a day his entire life. It is simply not our natural way of life.
You can see what happens to men who work all day and night. They lose their hair, they have high body fat low muscle, their hormones are all over the place, and most of them die decades before their time.
You are not meant to be a pack mule who works hard all his life for the benefit of his master.
Work extremely hard for a few years (your 20s), build a scalable business, make money, and then take it easy and enjoy your life. As you get older, the ratio of work:other needs to skew towards other things.
Otherwise life just goes by and you turn 60. You have money but not the body to enjoy it. A complete waste because money is useless once you are dead.
And there’s only so much money you reasonably need and can reasonably spend (only very vapid superficial people get happier by purchasing and owning more material items).
Most guys are NPCs and have their eyes closed. They work wage slave jobs and never attain financial freedom in the first place. They are not even players in the game.
The real players sometimes get so obsessed with the game of money that they forget to live.
I see this all the time with clients. You have a 75 year old guy flying the cheapest economy seat to save money.
Uncle, you are 75. You can afford better things so use them. What will you do with all of the investments you made over decades and decades? Take it with you to heaven?
Sometimes men are so stupid. They are too old to change their ways. But you don’t have to repeat their mistakes.
This is ironically something that a lot of ambitious men do not like hearing. They are so focused with their goals and working that they miss out on the fact that you also have to enjoy life, not just work.
You can improve your life significantly by simply deciding that you want to enjoy it more. Make the choice.
What’s that thing you wanted to do? GO DO IT.
What’s that place you wanted to visit? BUY A TICKET AND GO THERE.
That chick you think is a cutie? GO AND TALK TO HER.
Don’t wait to live life. In a few short decades, you are old and DEAD.
