Signs Someone is a Loser

Too many heavy information posts lately, time for a fun one.

This one is going to save you a ton of time because if you are quick at identifying losers, you can stop investing time/resources into them because you know they are going nowhere (the relationship will have no ROI).

There is nuance that people can be losers in some areas of life while doing well in others, but if someone meets multiple points in this list, 99% chance you are better off keeping them as mere acquaintances than close friends.

Of course if they are truly exceptional in one thing, you should keep them around for that particular thing while ignoring everything they have to say about everything else.

For example, someone could be truly great with women but be a loser at everything else. You should still keep them around because such men make great wingmen and can introduce you to many girls.

Of course it goes without saying that you must provide equivalent value in the same or some other field so it doesn’t become a one sided relationship. A give and take keeps everyone interested and ensures the relationship lasts a long time.

With that out of the way, here is the list:

1. First and foremost – a lack of ambition. “Procrastination” is a life problem. Years go by and he accomplishes nothing. If this is you, take the Live Intentionally: 90 Day Self-Improvement Program and solve the problem for good because wasting weeks and months of your life is just sad.
2. Zero financial discipline. Maxxed out credit cards, consumer debt, iPhone with a $500 per month salary.
3. Zero physicality. Either skinny fat or obese with zero muscle. Eats like shit and has zero self-control. Is not actively trying to fix it.
4. Extreme leftist opinions like 500 gender theory (Redditor). Or extreme rightist opinions like women should stay at home wearing burkas. Basically shows they spend too much time online and not enough time in the real world socializing with real people.
5. Obsessed with politics.
6. Works a dead end job.
7. Complains about women being sluts but can’t get laid.
8. Relies on government help to survive.
9. Will say they are “usually unlucky” (avoid this type like the plague)
10. Unwarranted cynicism. Thinks everything is a scam and everyone is out to get them.
11. Extreme follower of religion. You are either doing what he’s doing or you’re going to hell as a sinner. Typically lacks critical thinking and/or became frustrated with life.
12. Has no hobbies or interests besides work and consumerism (drinking, shopping, eating, etc.).
13. Broke AND fat at the same time. (“I’m too busy to eat clean and train” but you’re also not making great money, so where is your time going?)
14. Repeats mainstream media opinions without critical thinking.
15. Cares about flavor of the month social issues (first COVID vax, then Ukraine, then Israel/Palestine, then gay pride, then something else, etc.)
16. Nerdy without career success. (Then why be a nerd in the first place?)
17. Asks 10000 questions. Never takes any action. Is always “thinking of” doing something but never actually does anything.
18. Says idiotic things like “false rape cases doesn’t exist”. Closet activist or lacks critical thinking or both.
19. Proud of bad discipline. “Yaaaa I’ve been skipping the gym. I haven’t come in almost 10 days.” Typically they are surrounded by other losers where bad discipline = higher status.
20. Is friends with other losers (see previous point).
21. Female with little sexual discipline. Deep down they all know they depreciate with every new man. But they lack self-control and good sense.
22. Male addicted to pornography because he cannot have real women. (Anything he says or thinks about women, dating, and interpersonal dynamics should be entirely ignored.)
23. Often talks about how good things were “back in their day” and how shit everything is now. It means they peaked a long time ago and life has been downhill ever since.
24. Jealousy + cope mentality. Anyone who sleeps with more women than him means they are “man whores”. Make more money than him means “privileged”. Fitter than him means “steroids”. Smarter than him means “know it all”.
25. Gossips about other people.
26. Injected lips. No idea why but this pretty much guarantees the woman is extremely vapid and low IQ. Good for casual sex but useless for anything else.
27. Complains a lot. Problems oriented instead of solutions oriented.
28. Penny wise pound foolish. Will save $100 a year by not buying books but will spend $100 a month on drinking and restaurants. Doesn’t understand the concept of ROI. A good book is worth 1000x the sticker price.
29. Consumes a ton of TV and movies. Has watched all the episodes of FRIENDS and other sitcoms 3 times. Wants the life of a sitcom character.
30. Lives vicariously through others. “If I was you I would…”. In the meantime he is an overweight corporate wage slave married to an ugly overweight nagging wife.
31. Commits petty crimes like theft or card fraud. Dishonest people are dishonest in all areas of life. For example, this shoplifter arrested in America.