I was out and about at the mall and I made a new thought connection: Casual dating is analogous to renting while marriage is analogous to owning.
If you’ve ever dealt with any business that rents things out, you’d know that rented products depreciate much faster than products only used by the owner.
For example a piece of furniture that will last 5 years in your own office will last maybe 3 years in a rented office, multi owner leased cars lose value faster than single owner cars (even for the same number of kilometers driven), etc.
Everyone who’s spent any time in any business where you rent stuff out knows this. You need to take the standard depreciation rate and double and even triple it. People care far less about things they’re only temporarily using and don’t actually own.
How is casual dating similar to renting?
Let’s be real – the end goal of casual dating is to fuck the woman and leave her after a few months. You know this, the girl knows this, everyone knows it – it’s an open secret.
This is not a case of the woman being “exploited” (as the simps see it). Modern women LIKE it and WANT the emotional highs and lows. It’s like how children like ice cream. It’s not good for them but they like it.
If you’ve ever been on any online dating app, women will make their own profile, go on dates, and deeply wish to meet a man who can seduce them and make them feel great.
All of them know that the chances of any guy they sleep with leading to marriage (especially if they met them from an app) is minuscule. And yet they do it.
In other words, the situation is very similar to renting where the guy and the girl will “use” each other for a limited time and part ways.
You can’t expect the renter to care for you like an owner would.
I’m going to explain this in a very simple way that most of you will understand (assuming non-retard):
When I was casually dating girls (before I got married), I would always ask them to wear high heels, very short skimpy skirts, shirts with cleavage, and sometimes I’d ask them to put on makeup. If I thought there was any risk, I’d make sure the girl took an after pill.
None of these things are exactly great for a woman’s health but I didn’t care. I was a renter and knew I’ll be with a different woman in a few weeks or months once I was bored.
I literally could not give a shit about their long term physical or mental health. The only thing that mattered to me was what was fun for me.
I liked the attention and access I got when I was with a girl that was barely wearing anything, so I had them do that (very easy to get new girl’s number if you’re at a party with a half naked chick – this is how women are – they want the guy who has been pre-selected by other women).
Now, on the other hand, I got married about a year and a half ago and I have beautiful and homely wife.
I never tell her to wear high heels except when there won’t be a lot of walking because I know walking in high heels is bad for her feet and knees.
I never have her wear skimpy clothes in public because it’s bad for her soul. And I’d never tell her to take an after pill because they are just so bad for you.
Why is this? Because with my wife I’m not a renter but an owner. I treat her with much more love and care because she is mine for life. There’s no replacement I’m looking forward to 3 months later.
In conclusion…
The long story short is that if you’re a chick and you’re going out with dudes you’re not married to, at some level you have to understand that you’re going to be treated like rental property… because that’s the transaction you are engaging in (even if you’re not being paid a rent).
There is no “argument” against this because this is the hard reality. Reality is reality whether you choose to believe it or not.
If you’re dating lots of men, you are making an irresponsible decision because you have to spend the rest of your life with your mind and body while these guys can’t just move on to the next chick.
You know this, so be smart about your decisions. If you know he’s temporary, don’t go out with him. And I know you’re tempted to – I’ve dated lots of women exactly like you – I know you want it, but all this temporary stuff is bad for you.
I would say there is also a lesson in there for fathers who are “okay” with their daughters dating randoms. You can be certain that men she is not married to will not treat her with the same care you would.
Another reason why it’s a good idea to marry your daughter early.
