I came across yet another viral post by a woman explaining to men what masculinity and “real man” means. I will not include her handle in the screenshot because she does not deserve the exposure:
How women define masculinity
If you ask women, this is what “masculinity” means according to them:
- “You PROVIDE. Period.”
- “Work yourself to the bone”
- “Sacrifice EVERYTHING”
- “You don’t get to be tired.”
- Do everything in your power to make sure your woman doesn’t have to choose between electricity bills and groceries
- Get up at 4 am and come home at 7 pm from work
They may use different terms and more ambiguous language but this is what it eventually boils down to.
But guess what?
Women’s definition of masculinity is actually the definition of CHATTEL SLAVERY.
Slaves have to work all day entirely sacrificing their life to provide for their ungrateful masters.
Slaves have to sacrifice anything that might bring them pleasure.
Slaves are obligated to provide when they don’t want to.
Slaves have to work themselves to the bone.
Slaves don’t get to be tired.
Women (gynocentric society in general) define masculinity as you working at the expense of your happiness so that they are well provided for.
They do it to manipulate and shame men into giving them things (money, comfort, time, attention, sexual exclusivity, etc.).
To put it clearly, women’s definition of masculinity is a shaming/manipulation strategy to get men to work for their benefit and part with the fruits of their labor.
This definition of masculinity has been injected into mainstream culture by TV, media, celebrities, schools, and the like.
ANYTHING that brings happiness and pleasure to men that does not benefit women (or corporations) is branded unmanly or boyish.
Or at the very least something you are told you should feel guilty about “indulging” in them.
Here are some examples of things men like that are “childish” because it does not serve the interests of women:
- Dating multiple women without commitment
- Hanging out with the guys without the presence of women
- Spending time on the internet learning about niche topics that interest you
- Playing sports or video games or other activities you enjoy after you are done with the day’s work
- Using money for your own pleasure and hobbies instead of funding the woman’s lifestyle (for example, spending 3 months salary on a ring for her is fine but spending the same amount on hobby equipment you enjoy is childish)
- Etc.
On the other hand, things you do for the benefit of women are considered masculine and “responsible”:
- Helping with household chores
- Being in a “monogamous committed relationship”
- Working two jobs so the woman doesn’t have to work
- “Stepping up” to be the step-father of the spawn of a single mother
- Giving her most of your time and only rarely going out with your friends
- Not spending money on your hobbies and interests and instead funding her life (buy her expensive clothes, jewelry, etc.)
- Doing things that the woman enjoys like watching romantic movies, shopping, television, etc.
- etc.
Sadly most men are stupid (and desperate for sex and female approval) so they buy into the charade and become the woman’s workhorse.
What is real masculinity?
Read carefully because I’m about to reveal to you something that is going to change how you think:
REAL MASCULINITY MEANS DOING WHAT YOU WANT.
This has and will always be true masculinity. Women and gynocentric men (men who are desperate for women’s approval and praise) do not get to define masculinity for us.
Real masculinity is being the master of your own self and doing what YOU want.
If you want multiple girlfriends and sidechicks, then so be it.
If you want to have one woman and provide for your family, then so be it.
If you want to abandon your family and do something else, then so be it. Yes I am aware hearing this makes beta males and gynocentric men REALLY mad (They have had “be responsible” hammered into them).
If you want to be rich and successful and sacrifice to get there, then doing that is manly.
If you don’t care about success and want to play video games all day, then do that. Not that it’s going to lead to great long term outcomes, but it wouldn’t make you less of a man. Not caring about wanting to be successful and rich is still your choice. (“If I was not Alexander, I would be Diogenes.”)
Ironically, by women’s definition, neither Alexander nor Diogenes would be considered manly. Because neither men did things that served women’s interests.
One was a conqueror who conquered for his own ambitions, and the other was a man who lived in a barrel.
The point is that you are not “obligated” to provide for anyone you don’t want to provide for. You are not obligated to live a life you don’t want to live. Your life is yours to live and enjoy, not to be spent in servitude of others.
REJECT the idea that you have to be a pack mule and make sure you give women a comfortable existence (or somehow risk becoming a fake man).
But but but aren’t men supposed to provide for their families?
Are we not shirking our duties when we say a man can choose not to provide for his family? Haven’t historically men always provided for their families?
This is where gynocentrism muddies the waters and tricks you into becoming a slave.
What is the difference between a slave and a man? CHOICE.
A gynocentric mindset turns you into a slave who MUST provide. There is no element of freedom or choice.
A man on the other hand has the choice to provide for his family. You provide for your family because you like your family and want them to do well in the world.
If for whatever reason that fundamental assumption changes (i.e. you no longer like your family), you are not obligated to provide for them.
That is the difference between real masculinity and gynocentric slave masculinity.
Look around you and see how many men are stuck slaving their days away providing for women who they do not like:
- Women who disrespect them
- Women who are lazy and do nothing
- Women who cheat on them (yes, he “forgave” her)
- Women who have given them nothing but a dead bedroom for years
This is the majority of men. They are essentially enslaved by the woman. Because they don’t understand what it means to be a man.
Under real masculinity, the man will LEAVE and find a different woman (or women) that better serves his interests. He would have the choice to do something else.
Under gynocentric slavery, they are stuck serving and providing for the woman even if the woman does not do her part of the deal. You will be told that you need to keep providing for the woman and stay monogamous to her even if you have a dead bedroom.
It is slavery because the woman feels ENTITLED to the man’s work and sexual exclusivity and the man is made to feel OBLIGATED to provide for her even when he gets nothing in return.
You are NOT obligated to provide for anyone you do not want to provide for. Do not let them make your own mind your barrier to your freedom and happiness.
Do Not Be Addicted to Female Approval
In life, if you want to be happy and free, you have to break free from being addicted to seeking female approval and praise.
Being addicted to female praise will destroy you for the simple reason that all female praise eventually boils down to how much you benefit women at your expense.
At first you will lose your ability to speak freely. Women will clap for you when you speak feminist viewpoints and boo you when you say anything that might be construed as “sexist”.
Like a lion in a circus, you will be trained into saying things like “men and women are equal and have equal capabilities”.
Then, slowly but surely, the praise will be used to reward you for indulging in beta male behavior and providing for women (behaviors I described above in the article).
It will turn you into a walking and talking joke of a person who says men and women are equal and that men have no authority over women, and at the same time knows he needs to provide for women or the praise will be taken away.
Do you know what someone with responsibility for providing for someone without authority over them is called? A slave.
This is the end result of being addicted to female praise. You become a slave. And all they had to do was give you some attention, clap for you, and praise you for being “responsible”.
In the meantime you get to “work to the bone” to provide them with useful material resources and take care of their emotional needs for free.
To add insult to injury, 90% of the time the woman isn’t even sleeping with the guy being played like this (How many modern marriages are sexless? Just look at the amount of internet pornography being consumed by married men for your answer).
Remember what women praise in men is very different from the traits of men they open their legs for.
It is the nice guy vs jerk situation all over again.
Women say they want nice guys. They praise nice guys and tell them that they are perfect. They tell them how much they wish all the jerks were like them.
But then they go and sleep around with the men they say are jerks. That’s who they open their legs for and who they cherish inside them.
Only to come back to the nice guy friend and complain to him about how badly the jerk treats her.
“If only they were like you…”
The nice guy always wonders “but what about ME? I’m exactly what you say you want” and lives in frustration not realizing that women’s stated beliefs are different from their actual beliefs.
Sidenote: if this is your life situation, I can guarantee that you can completely change your dating/married life if you read The Book of Pook Series and the Seduction Bible. It will be the best investment you will ever make in your life.
Why are women attracted to jerks? Why are they not attracted to the nice guys they say they want?
Because jerks are masculine. They do what they want.
They are not looking for female approval or praise.
On the other hand, the nice guy is not masculine. He does things for female attention and praise. He is a spiritual faggot.
From the woman’s perspective, the nice guy is their ticket to a comfortable life after they enjoy their 20s getting fucked by men like me. The nice guy is their backup plan if nothing works out. He is the last choice.
The main plan is to find an exciting masculine “jerk” and “fix him” and marry him. When that fails the woman hits 28, the backup plan is triggered and they want a man who is “responsible”.
I slept with so many women who are now married to some nice chump with a job and a degree simply because I did not care what these women thought of me. I did what I want and that is a quality highly attractive to women.
Some of these women were in casual relationships with me, some were in relationships with other men but slept with me anyway, and some I just had on and off friends with benefits relationships with.
Read: How to Get a Friends With Benefits (FWB) Relationship
The beta males who have swallowed the “man is a provider” gynocentric narrative hook, line, and sinker do not have any understanding of the fact that they’ve gotten played.
The women they are providing for are much smarter than them. She had her fun and is now using them to live a nice and easy life in something like retirement.
All she needs to do is praise the chump when he does good behavior (provide for her) and shame him when he does bad behavior (anything that does not benefit her).
Like the parasite who happily saps nutrition from the host giving nothing in return till the host is dead, this game of the woman using praise and shame as reward and punishment to make the man work for her benefit continues till he is dead from the toll.
Until next time.
Your man,
Harsh Strongman
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