How to Talk to Women on Dates PART 3: How to Keep Conversations Going

Continued from part 2.

Note: If you’re sleeping around with random girls, make sure you’ve read How to Avoid a False Rape Accusation. A few simple precautions can save you a lot of trouble on the off chance that things go south.

In this final part of this series, I’m going to talk about how to keep conversations with women going without it ever getting dry or boring.

These are conversation techniques that I’ve come up with myself over many years of experience.

“What do you do in your free time?”

Under most normal circumstances, you want to keep the woman talking as long as possible. It increases her comfort level with you and makes it more likely that the date will lead to sex (assuming you also periodically escalate the date, see part 2 for more info about this).

Should an awkward pause arise where the conversation stops and none of you know what to say, you should drop the “what do you do in your free time?”

It will open up the conversation again and you can talk about her interests which makes her feel as if you two have known each other for a while.

Say something provocative

Another thing you can do to ramp up the conversation and increase passion is to say something provocative and then “get convinced”.

Her: “I play chess”

“Wait. Women don’t play chess.”

“What?”

“I don’t know any women who play chess. You’re odd.”

“I know tons of women who play chess. What are you talking about?”

“I have never seen girls be interested in chess.”

“Women can play chess.”

“How did you learn to play chess?”

[She will continue to sell you her story and try to show you that women can play chess. You should act like you are convinced by her.]

“Yes, that makes sense. Personally I can’t play chess. It’s boring.” [this adds humor and puts her on the defensive because now she has to prove to you that she isn’t boring.]

Say something wrong to get corrected

Her: “I lived in Saudi Arabia for a year”

“Wow. I’ve heard women can’t even go out without 4 males present there. How was it?”

She will then proceed to correct you about the place not being nearly as oppressive as people portray it to be.

Act convinced and then ask her a few questions about her time there. Basically keep her yapping.

“I don’t know. I had a friend who is from Saudi and she said that women there often wear bikinis under their burkas. Apparently the women are smart and know how to enjoy themselves.”

[Provocative statement. This will get her to respond with a story of her or her friends doing something daring like that. Also sexualizes the conversation.]

She [smiling] “I did that once”

“Show me”

“What?”

“I want to see what you looked like in a burka”

“Oh” [she will show you a photo of her in a burka]

“Hmm. I want to see the bikini. I bet it looked good on you.”

[At this point, if she blushes and shows you a picture, you should add some touching to make her wetter (she is already sexually turned on by this point)]

Amplify her sentiments

Her: “My roommate took my skirt”

“I bet that’s happened before.” [Amplification]

“Yeah she does it all the time…” [she will start to complain]

“An old girlfriend of mine used to steal her roommate’s clothes for us in bed. She later revealed to me that she was bisexual and liked her roommate. Maybe your roommate likes you.” [you are showing that you have experience with women + turning her into a sexual object in your conversation]

“No no it’s nothing like that” [blushing]

“You’re in denial.”

Invent her reputation

Note: Do not do this if you don’t have some experience under your belt.

This works best if you know her friend group.

You: “Honestly before I went out with you, your friends told me you’re boring but you’re so much fun. I think they’re jealous.”

“Who said that?”

“Nevermind. They are wrong though.” [Don’t drop any names]

Basically this throws off her game and she is now motivated to prove to you how awesome she is by sleeping with you.

Neg her

Note: Do not do this if you don’t have some experience under your belt. You can fuck up the date if you do this wrong.

Basically, if a girl is acting a bit haughty, you should bring her down back to reality. This means saying something that reduces her self-confidence.

What I do is just stare at her face for a few seconds and say something like “You have one eye that is different from the other.”

“What?”

“You have one eyebrow higher than the other” (or make up something else, like “you have a slightly droopy eyelid”)

“Where?”

“Nevermind. Don’t worry about it.”

It will make her a bit insecure. Tell her that “it’s not a big deal” and that “No one is perfect. It’s life.”

Negging her takes away their attitude/haughtiness and they start talking like normal people again. You can take it from there.

And that’s the end of this series.

Hope that helped.

Your man,

Harsh Strongman

Note: If you’re sleeping around with random girls, make sure you’ve read How to Avoid a False Rape Accusation. A few simple precautions can save you a lot of trouble on the off chance that things go south.