How to Kiss a Girl For the First Time

A game related post after a while, but they are worth writing because every time I see my Google Analytics, I find a lot of young men on the dating related posts.

First of all, make sure you’ve downloaded and read No-BS Casual Dating cover to cover. It’s a free book that will get you up to speed on a lot of the basics of game, no matter how uncomfortable you find them.

When you’re on a date, and you’ve built some comfort and broken the touch barrier properly (e.g. holding hands, putting your arm around her waist when taking a photo, etc.), she will be a little turned on.

When a man touches a woman on a date, it turns her on. Especially if the touch is around her waist or thighs after you’ve built comfort (people have read and use the “rabbit story” in the book with great success).

Here’s what you want to do:

1. Take her somewhere secluded where you will have enough privacy (behind a tree at the beach, or in your car, or anywhere people can’t see you two).
2. Say “I want to kiss you”
3. If she does not say no or react negatively, go for it.

It’s that simple. I’ve done it dozens of times with new girls and it works almost all the time.

“I want to kiss you”

These are the magic words, and you should use them because they tell the woman what to expect and take the uncertainty away.

You don’t want to surprise the woman because sometimes it can make things very awkward if she was not interested. Telling her first is the safest way to handle things and produces better results than going in with no warning.

Don’t worry about whether or not you’re being “chad” enough or not. Literally only losers and retards think like that.

What matters in the real world are RESULTS. If something works and helps you sleep with more women, how does it matter if it’s “chad” or not “chad”?

Young men, especially the ones who sleep with barely any women (less than 1 new woman a month) are HIGHLY insecure about their perception of masculinity, and they care more about SEEMING like a winner than actually BEING a winner.

I’m not saying that to shame them like women do. I’m simply stating a fact.

Who pretends to be richer than they are? Who buys prominent “luxury” brands? Who acts like an alpha despite having 0 real life results?

Insecure young bros.

In the real world, the only thing that matters is what actually works. Not your idealized sense of what should work. There is no need to reinvent the wheel.

Just use the 3 places on the first date system (this makes the girl think as if you’ve known her longer because she has memories of you in different places and helps you sleep with her on the first date), build comfort, add touching, kiss her, then kiss her some more, keep escalating, and take her home.

Let the dorks pretend how good they are with the ladies while they sleep with none of them while you sleep with lots of them by doing WHAT ACTUALLY WORKS.

That’s all for this piece.

See you next time.

Your man,

Harsh Strongman