I bumped into a guy I know from the gym. He’s not a friend but we’ve lifted some weights together.
He looked really tired and had sunken eyes. I asked him, “Is everything alright?”
He looked at me with pride and told me he hadn’t slept because he had been helping out a few girls at night:
“They were at a club but got drunk and called me to drop them home. You know it’s not safe for lone women at night these days.”
He seemed proud of the fact that the girls had called him for help. This is very typical of men who have little experience with women.
I played along.
“Nice! Are you dating any of them?”
“No man. I just met her at a party a few weeks ago. She just called me because she and her friends needed help.”
OK, at that point I knew this guy is not there yet (too beta).
I know better than to waste time trying to help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. I told him he’s a nice guy for helping out someone in need and then I went my way.
It’s sad that some guys are so beta that they are actually proud of being used by women.
Look at this situation objectively:
This guy woke up in the middle of the night to drop a bunch of drunk girls partying at a club home. He barely knew these women and he wasn’t fucking any of them, but he sacrificed his time, sleep, and money to drop these sluts home.
To top it off, instead of being pissed off at them asking him to be their errand boy, he is proud of it. He thinks he’s “the man” because the women asked him for help. He doesn’t realize that the women just used him as a free ride.
Why did the women in distress not call their fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, call a cab, or ask the club staff for help?
Because that would hurt their reputation (family) or cost them money (club staff or cab).
They asked his poor dude because they thought he was beta enough to agree to it.
It could even be a bet among the girls to see if she could get a guy she met once to come help them all out for free.
Women can smell beta through a man’s personality. She met this guy once and knew he was beta to the point that he’d wake up in the middle of the night and drop her and her friends home after a night of drinking and partying at the club.
They knew he would do it because he’s a sex-starved beta male and because they were women.
Let’s face it – if this was a bunch of drunk dudes he had met once, there’s no way he’d wake up in the middle of the night and drop them home. He only did it because they were women.
If it was a bunch of drunk dudes calling him, he would have said “Call a cab, what the hell is wrong with you?”. This is also the answer he should have given the woman, but he’s too beta to do that.
The moral of the story is that if you’re a beta male, women WILL try to take advantage of this fact and use you for favors, free food, free companionship, etc. and give you nothing in return.
Every woman knows how to act like a damsel in distress when it comes to it and your beta nature will have you kissing her feet if you don’t fix it.
You have to understand: You don’t owe women anything.
Many women lately have unrealistic attitudes and feel like they are entitled to male help but just because they feel that way doesn’t mean it’s actually that way.
Unless she’s in your family (blood relative), your sister, your wife, girlfriend, or very close friend – you have no business going out of your way to help her.
Ask yourself if you would do the favor if the person in question was a man (everything else remains the same). If the answer is no, then don’t do it for her.
Stop getting used by women who care nothing for you. You are not a peon and you aren’t in the woman saving business.
If she can party and get drunk at 2 AM in a club, she can find a way to get home as well. And if she can’t, that’s still her problem not yours.
Hope that helps.
Your man,
Harsh Strongman
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