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Having a High IQ: Problems, Challenges, and Frustrations


Let’s talk about something serious that no one appears to be talking about: the challenges and problems you face as a high IQ person living in a world designed for average IQ people.

This article does not aim to provide solutions to many of the problems presented, it only aims to discuss them, and hopefully, provide some sanity to struggling intelligent people.

Before you proceed with reading this article, you should first take an online IQ test to get a rough estimate of your IQ score.

If the number you get is below 120, this article likely will not be of use to you (will feel like a pointless rant).


IQ is generally presented as a purely positive thing, i.e., more is always good. What could possibly be bad about being more intelligent?

However, just like everything else, high intelligence is a trade-off. What you gain in raw brainpower, you lose in your ability to fit into general society.

You see this all the way back in school, where ‘nerds’ are ostracized, to workplaces where higher IQ people are made to feel like misfits (“Low EQ”) and forced to follow ultimately flawed instructions from bosses who insist on obedience.

Having a high IQ, just like all things, has its pros and cons.

The pros are easy to spot – more financial and career success, more academic success, more business success, better analytical ability, etc. The cons are far more subtle, to the point that it is mostly believed that there aren’t any.

And because of this myth that intelligence can have no cons, the problems created by a high IQ often go misdiagnosed.

This leads to high IQ people trying to fix the “wrong source” – which in turn makes the problem worse.

You are told you need to work on your “people skills” – meanwhile, you can’t figure out why people find enjoyment in watching other people play football on TV (the answer is tribalism).

This misdiagnosis and dead-end “wrong source” fixes make many intelligent people feel confused, hopeless, and full of despair over time, especially when combined with the insanity of not being able to know what’s wrong with you.

Reading this article will not solve your problems, but it will tell you the source of the problem.

The world was not made for us: We’re freaks

From a statistical perspective, we’re freaks. This is neither good nor bad, it just means that we’re merely different.

If you have an IQ of 120, you’re in the top 9% of the population, intelligence wise.

At 125, you’re in the top 4.8%.

At 130, in the top 2.7%.

At 135, top 1%.

Take a moment to pause and think about how small that is.

Once you see how rare your level of intelligence is, you’ll understand that the real problem lies in the economies of scale: “The world is not meant for you.”

Society as a whole evolved to meet the needs of the many; it exists to serve the majority of the population, which just so happens to not be as intelligent (the vast majority of people fall within one standard deviation – the 85 to 115 band).

For example, if you have an average IQ, there are a lot of options available for you to find people and entertainment – for example, you could go to a nightclub, or grab some beer at the bar, or watch some sports, etc.

For some high IQ people, this sounds like fun too. Still, for the vast majority of intelligent people, these are painful experiences because they do not give us the mental stimulation we need – they seem pointless and futile activities.

This is how it has to be: While this “optimization for the majority” may sound unfair and even discriminatory, this is how it mathematically has to be. The world designed for the majority. You can’t have a highway system designed for the minorities of the country; it has to serve cities and dense population centers.

Likewise, you wouldn’t want to create irrigation infrastructure to supply water to places with very few crops; you’d first divert resources to areas where there is a lot of agriculture taking place.

Why no one else “sees” your problem: Imagine being physically disabled. Think of the problems you’d face: being unable to climb stairs, being unable to drive – you’d meet a bunch of daily hurdles that non-disabled people don’t even think about simply because they don’t have to.

Physically disabled people face the same problem: the world was not designed for them. It was designed for the majority – the non-handicapped people.

Or course, we make minor adjustments for both disabled people and high IQ people, but the larger structure of the world – social, political, economic, romantic, commercial, academic, etc. it’s entire makeup and composition is built and designed for average IQ (~100) people.

This basically guarantees that if you have a high IQ, you’ll face some “adjustment problems” with the rest of the population, be it in the form of having to waste time being forced to graduate school at the same speed as everyone else, to being forced to wake up early in the morning to go to work in rush hour traffic even though you work best at night and can do the same (if not more) work from home (“but how do I know you are working if I don’t see you working”).

In nearly all aspects of your life, your IQ is going to present at least some kind of problem that others don’t have to face (and don’t see).

Social Isolation

Let’s take a group of clinically retarded people (typically considered as with an IQ below 80) and place an ordinary person among them, and force them to interact with each other.

While the ordinary person would be able to interact with them, the interactions are going to be a bit painful for him; he just won’t fit in. He wouldn’t feel “at home”.

Now let’s take a group of average IQ people (IQ ~100) and place someone with a high IQ (120+) among them. It’s a very similar experience, because relatively speaking, the average person is slightly retarded by comparison.

The high IQ person will be able to talk with them, but he wouldn’t “feel at home”.

This is what happens to high IQ people in general – they live in a world of people who appear to be slightly retarded. They can interact with them, but they don’t feel at home.

Average and below outnumber high IQ people 10 to 1 – HIgh IQ people often end up feeling somewhat isolated, even when they are among people!

They just don’t “fit in” with everyone else, and often end up feeling like there’s something wrong with them.

Culture and Entertainment

As and television and mass communication have become ubiquitous, culture and entertainment have also been optimized for average people.

Look at how 80% of humanity entertains themselves every day:

  • “Keeping up with the Kardashians” – reading and watching celebrity gossip (ooh Angelina Jolie had a break-up!!!!!)
  • Watching people play sports – kicky ball and whippy stick are the most popular I hear
  • Mindless feel-good nonsense on talk shows (Oprah said follow your passions and the money will follow! Imma gonna do jus dat! It make me feel gud.)

In other words, ultimately pointless things.

Most high IQ people just aren’t into consuming mainstream entertainment at all.

I’ve never met a smart person who likes to sit and watch someone play whippy stick and jumps up and down when the ball flies into the air.

In fact, most smart people don’t watch sports or read celebrity nonsense at all.

Here is a large crowd of people having ‘fun’.

Average and low IQ people primarily consume these forms of entertainment, and that is all they usually talk about.

This creates a significant conversational divide between high IQ people and everyone else.

High IQ people (in general) want to talk about world events, technology, history, culture, and other real-world things that stimulate them, not about pointless sports and celebrity gossip.

And because high IQ people are so few and far in between, there are hardly any decent conversation partners available (the internet solved this to an extent – but you can never replace physical human connection).

While high IQ people can have a myriad of hobbies and focus on their education, careers, dating, businesses, etc. – having a high IQ undermines the most fundamental and important thing in our lives – other people.

High IQ or low IQ, we’re all people, and we derive most of our happiness from other people.

You can have all the money in the world, all the books and video games, all the gadgets to keep you occupied, but it will feel meaningless without family, friends, and loved ones. We need human connection.

And abnormally intelligent people are robbed of a large part of the human connection pool.

Envy and Insecurity

Just like all qualities, a high intellectual ability triggers people’s envy and insecurity.

Often, this leads to negative interactions with people for no fault of your own:

This can make it harder to make friends and progress in your career as so many people instinctively go in competition mode with you.

Democracy: You Pay for People’s Stupidity,
And it’s a Thankless Job

The vast majority of those reading this post live in a democracy, and in a democracy, you often have the masses exploiting the “top 5%”.

Most of the tax revenue is contributed by the top 5% of the population – business owners, entrepreneurs, risk-takers, people in well-paid careers, etc. – almost all of them are high IQ people.

And a lot of the money is spent on stupid people:

  • Welfare for people who were so bad with their finances that they cannot afford to survive in their old age on their own money even after having a 40-year long career
  • Paying for the scholarships and grants to idiots studying vegan coffee gender studies and PhDs in jungle style belly dancing
  • Paying for people who keep having children they cannot afford to raise by themselves

It’s essentially a “smart person tax”, where intelligent and productive members of society pay for the mistakes of everyone else.

And you’d think that you’d be respected for your contribution – that you sacrificed some of the wealth generated by the application of your limited time on the planet to shield them from the consequences of their mistakes, but it turns out that much of the average population hates you for it.

They consider you an “evil rich fat cat” who “didn’t earn what he has” and “owes it to the rest of society” to “pay their fair share.”

And because of the way democracy is structured, they don’t realize that you’re bearing their burden. They never face the consequences and assume “this is how things are” and keep doing more of the same things over and over again.

And you get to pay for them!

High IQ Students and The Education System

The modern American education system is not modern at all.

It was redesigned and implemented in the mid-1800s during the industrial revolution in order to produce successful workers in factories, plants, mines, etc.

It succeeded in producing great factory workers by focusing on compliance, robotic discipline (such as following a schedule and being on time), and obedience.

Times have changed, but the education system is still the same. “Modern” education focuses on producing obedient workers, not on producing excellent thinkers. It does not encourage creativity and innovation (in fact, in many “stick to the curriculum” cases, it is actively discouraged).

Further, in such a system, everyone progresses at the same rate, regardless of ability – the smart kid who understands everything and the dumb kid who doesn’t end up progressing classes at the same rate.

In other words, smart students are bored. Many of them do not develop the discipline to work hard in school because everything comes so quickly to them. Many intelligent kids think they are stupid because they keep dozing off in class.

A lot of smart students could have saved many years of their youth if they were allowed to progress faster than the standard system. This wastage of time is just another price smart people pay by living in a world designed for average people.

Also – it does not help that smart kids are often bullied in school. Nerds are too smart to be focused on being popular (they see that popularity in school is pointless).


Intelligent people are generally good at what they do. However, there is one thing that is the bane of abnormally intelligent people’s existence:

“Soft” or “People skills”

People skills come naturally to average IQ people because they’re around people of the same intelligence level they are – they can relate to each other.

Intelligent people often cannot relate to the need for being indirect and fluffy when it comes at the cost of efficiency and effectiveness.

Intelligent people often do not waste time trying to protect other people’s emotions and feelings; they get straight to the point – they are seen as blunt and insensitive.

Intelligent people’s solutions solve problems, but they often step on people’s precious little toes.

They are far more likely to say what they really think rather than what the other person wants to hear.

This causes much friction in their workplaces, and they’re told they need to work on their “people skills”.

In fact, many intelligent people do not even know what “soft skills” exactly are.

They know it has something to do with presentation and people management, and that they need to develop them, but they don’t “understand” them and wonder what they’re doing wrong.

I’ll cut to the chase – soft skills are a euphemism for ass-kissing skills.

If you have something to say to someone, how do you say it without “hurting their feelings”?

If you deal with average people the same way you deal with slightly retarded people (by being overly nice and understanding with them), you would be considered to have excellent people skills.

Unfortunately, many high IQ people just don’t get it (because they can’t relate to the problem nearly as much) and keep crashing and burning with their bosses and coworkers.

And they always wonder what they do wrong.

Conclusion and Solutions

If you’re a high IQ person, you’ll always have “fitting in” issues wherever you are – be it your school, your workplace, and even with society in general.

The solution to this is to reduce reliance on other people as much as possible – in other words, entrepreneurship.

A good book you should read is Robert Greene’s 48 Laws Of Power (India, UK, USA– it will help you “know the rules of the game”.

Other problems, such as social isolation, don’t have real solutions other than finding like-minded and intelligent people online.

Intelligence has many benefits, but the problems it creates are part and parcel of your life – you have to deal with it.

The purpose of this article was not to provide solutions but to answer the “what is wrong with me” question that a lot of intelligent people go entire decades asking themselves.

I hope I have answered that question for you, and provided you with the sanity and acceptance that can only come when you know the source of the problem.

– Harsh Strongman

References and resources:

The article heavily draws upon (and in many parts blatantly plagiarizes) the ideas and words of Aaron Clarey (with his permission) as presented in his book Curse of the High IQ (India, UK, USA).

If you are a high IQ person or married to one, or suspect that you have a high IQ child – I highly recommend picking up this book.


  1. Hi Harsh,

    I was always told I was a high achiever – finishing my high schooling exams within the top 10th percentile of the state.

    I did the IQ test, however I was a bit disheartened by the results. I only achieved 95. That was my first time doing an IQ test though so it was all new to me. Did you practice or prepare for the test in anyway before you did it?


    • Hey do not worry about the MENSA test. Your ability to recognize patterns within shapes is not the only form of “intelligence”. And even if you are truly 95IQ, that doesn’t make you inferior. Having a higher IQ is overrated because just because you have a high IQ that doesn’t mean that you know everything.

      There are tons of high IQ normies who watch the NFL every weekend. Being a normie is more relevant than being “high IQ”.

  2. Hello Harsh,

    I am a follower of you in twitter i like your posts very much and find them very educating.

    I took the test and was shocked to know that I’m in the top 4.8% of the world(really felt happy for the 128 score…not bragging).
    Now , i seem to understand why everyone around me sees me as though i am rude or insesnsitive. And, i will read the book Robert Greene’s 48 Laws Of Power.

    Also,Can you please find the time to write on about how an Computer Science student IN INDIA can start an online buisness,it would be very helpfull.


    • > Computer Science student IN INDIA can start an online business

      Stop being lazy and don’t waste other people’s time. Being a CS student, you don’t really have any particular reason to require any location dependent advise. Use this little thing called ‘Google’.

      • Yes, i surely did google it but there are a lot of options online and many of them are just saying the options available and not showing a path(i.e a resource or website) to start any of it

        • Trial and error is your best friend here. Try various resources and stop hoping for readymade answers. Yes, you may lose some initial investment but don’t stop believing.

          Anything easy won’t be appreciated or loved. On the contrary, earning that thing will make it a part of your soul. Remember, there is no secret to success at anything. It is what makes it fun!

  3. I have always found it difficult to be social. I often agonize about being in a place with more than just one or two people. I leave situations feeling exhausted wondering if, “If I did it properly”. I have learned over the years to engage in a bit of banal banter, smile and nod whilst not offering too much opinion regarding any topic being discussed. I have become a master of platitudes. Rarely ever do I happen upon someone who is discussing anything which peaks my interest. Been called aloof, snobby, b**tchy, introverted, socially awkward, etc.over the years, but just let it roll off my back. The only place I ever felt comfortable was in academia. My MENSA exam labeled me at 143. Not the smartest person in the world, however I surmise enough to feel ostracized by the Kardashian-loving society!

  4. “Your IQ lies outside the area that the test is able to measure. We are hoping to extend this area as soon as we have gathered more data. Remember that it is a good idea to practice tests such as this – there are many others available online.” What kind of response is that?
    I got above response in my first attempt and 121 in second. After having read this article, I am also reminded of “The One of most pitiful sights is witnessing a highly energetic , talented Man who lacks a Mission. Who is thus lost & consequently ends up bitter, frustrated, cynical & jaded.” from the article “Grave Errors Made By Men in Their 20s”. Now that I am following Intentional Living I feel my energy is more directed.
    Thanks for the article.

  5. 105 IQ checking in.. I might retake in the morning since it’s been a full workday and I feel pretty shot right about now. Thanks for writing this article strongman. Accurately explains my parent’s communication problems.

  6. Hi,

    I would like to give a different opinion on the solutions presented.

    As high IQ people we have more trouble socializing, that’s a given. “Soft skills” (which is not ass-kissing skills unless you think empathy and marketing equals ass-kissing but I disgress) do not come to us naturally but, once we know it and know what they are, guess what, those are the most easy skills to practice and become successful at. Why ? Because pretty much everyone “succeeds” at them.

    It’s easy to become good enough at getting your way with your mouth without compromising your sanity. Why most high IQ have poor starting social skills ? Because they were buried in books, school work, and solo entertainment like puzzles or videogames because they were stimulating and usually parents didn’t push us too much to go and get social. Meanwhile other kids were just playing with each other, had 100s of conflicts everyday (you know, the thing we have horror of) and those 100s of conflict experiences compounded like our logical experience compounded.

    What low IQ jealous people call “Emotional Intelligence” so they can slap “Intelligence” on something they do have, is not much else than compounded experience dealing with people since childhood. We can acquire this experience, and it’s not the minor “natural ability” or “affinity with social situations” that will change anything about it. Just like anyone can go to the gym and build muscle as long as they’re not trying to win the next mister universe.

    So why do I say all of that ?

    There are two things I’d like you to reflect on (even if you disagree strongly with them, I’m okay with that :))

    1) Schools being boring : Had this problem for a while too, then jumped a class which leveled the playing field a bit after I was 12 (it also made my social anxiety worse, but that’s a given).
    I think parents have this huge responsibility of putting their children in top schools. I have the chance of having being raised in France and enough top schools are public and pretty much free.

    Once someone is in a class with 30 other students which are as good as himself and are here to compete, he’s going to finally build some work ethic because cruising the year won’t be enough anymore. Discussions will be more interesting (high IQ students together), everything is better. Again, the goal is to level up the playing field, not lower oneself down to the others.

    2) Have to go into entrepreneurship : It goes without saying that this is solo ventures with b2c saas we’re talking about.
    Having employees is a highly social activity. It’s really hard to get good employees and harder to keep them, and really hard to let go of bad employees without getting sued or have cascading people who quit. If you grow, middle managers (you know, those ass kissers also ready to backstab you) are worse to handle. They’re middle managers for something.

    If you’re doing b2b, getting clients is hard, because you’re up against the same idiot looking very clever sociopaths who managed to build both IQ *and* EQ. You get stomped, a very humbling experience if you choose to accept it as it is.

    The thing is, and you mention it, solo ventures are lonely and make social anxiety worse. We’re social creatures, there’s no way around it, we’re unhappy when we’re alone.

    However, I want to present an alternative to solo entrepreneurship & books to build social skills : To get into an excellent small-sized healthy tech company with a bleeding edge purpose. They have their recruitment shit down, are not very politicized (yet), and most of the people in them are high IQ low social skills people so discussions are interesting AND it’s easy to practice getting better at applying human mechanics.

    Also, no matter how 1% IQ one thinks he is, 1% is 75 000 000. That’s a LOT of people, and in them there is the entire “soft skills” specter. The most professional “fun” I had was to join some of them for a few years, share a lot, learn a lot and do much more amazing stuff together than alone because like minded high IQ people in a company will completely ostracize dumb people (but also people who think they’re hot shit and don’t even want to be part of a team). And whenever one feels ready he can go into entrepreneurship.

    I hope I’ve given you some food for thoughts, I don’t think there’s only way to skin a cat and while I think most of the world is not for us, and some of the top is definitely run by high functioning sociopaths (let’s name Trump for starters) I think it’s more easy than it seems for people like us who have high IQ, books and systems, to get better at socializing, to find more interesting people to socialize with, and ultimately to be happy and successful.

  7. Hi Harsh!
    Accurate article, however I’m not a high IQ person and I wonder, is there ways to improve your IQ?
    Thanks for all the value you give us everyday.

  8. My score is 105(not high iq) but i like to talk about world events, technology, history, culture, and other real-world things and not about pointless sports and celebrity gossip. Do this type of people exist? Whats your view about them

  9. Great article! However, in my experience, a high IQ person can easily understand how the masses work and what is required to be a part of masses. In fact, many high IQ people I know, have done that. The bigger problem is most high IQ people lack empathy and consider themselves superior and therefore do not make deliberate effort – even though they are much more capable that mid or low IQ people – to do that.

  10. Qualified for Mensa over 25 years ago, which I’ve only ever told my closest family and friends about. I’ve been self-employed since 2006 because I cannot stand the insufferable inefficiency of a regular job. I’ve learned to hone my people skills for purposeful outcomes, and get along with entrepreneurs or creative people best. I had a rough day dealing with people unable to comprehend basic concepts quickly so I googled and found this article. I continue to seek others with higher intelligence who are efficient and effective to work with. That was not the case today which was incredibly annoying!!!

  11. This article was like comfort food. But only for a few minutes.. Lately, I’ve realized that the burden on the smart people have notched up. It is not only the tax paid to compensate for the others, but we must also develop more skills to keep up with the rest of the world. Because if we dont want to be a loner, as the smarter person, it must be easier for us to pick up more skills than to expect the others to pick up our skills and empathize with us! Also, as we are social animals and it is mandatory for us to pay bills, we are forced to live and collaborate with the rest of the world. Which means, we have no other choice but to pick up the skills to play the mind game. I am in the process of it and it was frustrating and disheartening. Having picked up a good amount of ‘people skills’ and the crappy mind games that come with it, I can clearly see that my numbers & pattern processing capacity has gone down many fold. This is the downside of adding contrasting skillsets..
    Coincidentally, I watched a documentary on The Cognitive Trade Off Hypothesis.. The scenario in discussion is very similar to the trade off hypothesis.
    Only that I think, we don’t have to stay content with the trade off. Because, we know that there is scientific evidence on humans using less than 5% of their brains. So, if we could deliberately make an effort to balance out the learning in EQ & IQ, then we could use our brains better and become smarter on both sides. I know it is hard work, but flexing muscles regularly & deliberately leads to stamina.
    Gone are the days when the introverted high IQ person is given his/her corner to continue creating genius. Today’s social and family settings require the high IQ people to get out of their shell or else they risk losing their strength. Unless a human feels safe and loved in a social environment with a family that keeps ’em together, the high IQ person is going to lose his/her mind. It is no coincidence that smarter people are more prone to mental illnesses like anxiety and depression…
    It is a vicious/hairy cycle..
    If there was a Mask 2 movie made today, mask would be suffering from depression and anxiety and his punch line will be “Somebody Help Me” in contrast to the “Somebody Stop me”…

  12. greats article and tweets, man. We all know why men build the tallest skyscrapers – penis envy. I had a high IQ envy for a long time. But the smartest person I ever met killed himself. 3 highly intelligent and successful women I know are neurotic, miserable, unmarried at 40+, divorced, or effectively divorced.

    I’m not trying to say all smart people are messed up. Just pointing out that having high IQ doesn’t inoculate them from usual pitfalls, which is surprising since they have superior problem solving abilities.

    Perhaps Robert Greene’s 50th Law (written with rapper 50 Cent) explains a lot. I believe that emotions/fear should not be in the driver seat of how we see the world.

    Looking forward to more nutritious insights from your articles.

  13. I bought Aaron’s book a year ago and it changed my life . I’m IQ 128 according to MENSA’s test. It all makes sense. I always felt like my teachers and bosses weren’t seeing the most efficient way to schedule work, even though they had 20+ years experience on me. Most people appear to do things as inefficiently as possible, then complain about it. Nobody ever “got that” until “I got” what was “up” with MY mind lol.

  14. On the test you linked to I got 105 which is the lowest score I’ve ever had on any IQ test. I sat the offical mensa test in a formal setting and got something like 130 on the same “culture fair” shapes test and 150 on the other one which is verbal and numerical patterns.. It was just enough to scrape in a member though I never joined. I think the test you linked to could be understating peoples scores.

    I felt proud of my score but I take pains never to mention it or allude to it because it really means very little compared to discipline, hard work and the results of not letting the gift of a good brain go to waste.

    To me, people skills and so called “emotional intelligence” are easy to learn – use your high IQ to understand how people work and what can get you the best result. Being indirect and sensitive can be rewarding both in the sense of practical outcomes and human connections. After very awkward teenage years and early 20s I have become quite accomplished in these areas which once seemed so alien to me.

    Learning to cultivate a sense of play would be my best advice to the people likely reading this article. You can enjoy the company of normies with a little creativity. Imagine some pleb expresses a moronic opinion… don’t correct them, agree and amplify, take it to it’s most comedic conclusion while remembering to maintain the general good humour. Play with the normies a bit like you’d play with a child or a cute 20 year old girl – tell a tale, find a joke, entertain yourself and those around you will probably find you good company

  15. The Hunting of the Slan (Marginalia)
    by Edgar Allan Poe

    I have sometimes amused myself by endeavoring to fancy what would be the fate of any individual gifted, or rather accursed, with an intellect very far superior to that of his race. Of course, he would be conscious of his superiority; nor could he (if otherwise constituted as man is) help manifesting his consciousness. Thus he would make himself enemies at all points. And since his opinions and speculations would widely differ from those of all mankind — that he would be considered a madman, is evident. How horribly painful such a condition! Hell could invent no greater torture than that of being charged with abnormal weakness on account of being abnormally strong.

    In like manner, nothing can be clearer than that a very generous spirit — truly feeling what all merely profess — must inevitably find itself misconceived in every direction — its motives misinterpreted. Just as extremeness of intelligence would be thought fatuity, so excess of chivalry could not fail of being looked upon as meanness in its last degree: — and so on with other virtues. This subject is a painful one indeed. That individuals have so soared above the plane of their race, is scarcely to be questioned; but, in looking back through history for traces of their existence, we should pass over all biographies of”the good and the great,” while we search carefully the slight records of wretches who died in prison, in Bedlam, or upon the gallows.

  16. While you point out a lot of relatable issues, your reasoning seems surprisingly ignorant for someone with a supposed high IQ.

    Soft skills are not ass-kissing skills, furthermore, that’s a stupid oversimplification you’ve likely made to compensate for your lack of ability to adapt. Soft skills are crucial – and have always been. You won’t be able to make close relations without them which, as you have pointed out, is something we need.

    I would bet you that a lot of your problems would go away if you were a bit patient with some of these inferior people your unfortunately must deal with. You don’t need an IQ of 120+ to be interested in complicated stuff, you just won’t be able to comprehend as many complicated things as fast. Try starting conversations about what you find interesting, and I am sure you will be surprised.

    I came here to find something stimulating to think about while quarantined, so if anyone has any suggestions I’m all for it. If anyone can relate I also find it difficult to find people with social skills and humor to match the IQ, though there are many in the financial sector.

    PS: dont take it personally, you just seem unaware of the reasons you struggle with people, yet display it throughout the entire article.


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